Some of these AA women are just an embarrassment. I don’t think these white men are a prize or anything, because I love black men, but it makes sense based on her article why they don’t go out looking for African American women – or even black women as a whole.
90% of my female friends are collge graduates vs one of my male friends from high school. The babymama and babydaddy epidemic is hitting all races not just blacks. I agree with you 100%. Not somebodies babymama, working on a college degree, yes I am overweight but my White boyfriend loves it. Stop putting us all in the same category. The reason why theres so many babymamas is bc people are shacking up and not building families. Why does it always turn into bashing black women.
I appreciate your comment. Who are we, that we can’t grow with one another. The example that we should be taking from other races is that they take care of their own. Forget about how many web sites are dedicated to a white man looking for a black woman. Even if it means 10 or 15 of them are piled up in one house. We need to google how many web sites will you find where they are tearing each other down the way we doMy guess is, that’s one statistic where we are the clear winners. Though I did get a few cheap laughs from a few particularly hilarious posters, many of the comments were disturbing to hear. If that had been a prerequisite for a “decent enough” mate, they would have dismissed the person they now call their soul mate. I know an Asian couple that is doing this now. They are loyal to one another, they lift up one another. I know couples who are helping and have helped to put each other through school when one was lacking a degree. They put those resources together so that none of them ever goes without. My concern is for us as a unified race of people.
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” Some of you are blowing this out of proportion. I wish some of you read the article carefully because then you would know she’s not self-proclaiming those things, but instead those are some of the responses she’s gotten when she asked for a “detailed explanation.
The sister running this website made a grave mistake trusting Christelyn Karazin’s IR platform to pave the way for higher readership. For years they wrote articles like “8 Reasons To Date A White Guy” and many others. The IR dating craze is for a certain type of black woman: The self hating variety. This website is well known for writing interracial dating articles tailored for black women. And now the website is suffering for it. A smart businessman knows to never put all your eggs into one basket. The IR articles are the main reason the website has lost so many followers.
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”, she trying to get you to do something stupid, I guess that would include marriage. So im single and happier than I been the last 3 yrs. And im not gonna settle. Cant marry a chick that’s gonna come to my face and tell me to s*ck a dyyck ni**ah, f%got azz niccah(more than one occasion) Not marriage material. All I know is what I want. When I get me a respectful, submissive, can cook, likes to work out, freaky black women that I love and TRUST I will consider marriage. My momma(married to my pops 37yrs) used to tell me anytime a woman talks about “Real men do. You dont know what most black men want, im a black man and I dont know. Just got out of a 3 yr nightmare with a chick that had some of those qualities but was disrespectful and not submissive( I tried) enough to be my wife. Real men work and take care of their responsibilities, that’s it. Im 31, 1 child, descent job, own place and car, muscular and I can cook.
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Just FTR I’m 55, Black and have only date 4 black men in my life. That writer needs to get out more. There are many different kinds of black women and white men who are in relationships with each other. That’s just the guys who approach me and not because I’m so ‘special’it just happens. All of my major relationships have been white guys. It’s ridiculous to say there is only one kind of black woman that white guys like.
Historically, yes, I do tend to attract white guys more and that could be something inherently in me that orchestrates that but I try to never lose sight of who I am and I certainly don’t allow guys of other races to express their adulation at the expense of my sistahs. Yes, all those things are true, but those qualities also apply to legions of black girls, and I always endeavor to point that out. I have never been the girl who limited the offerings on the menu when it comes to dating. I have always been an equal opportunity scout and my pledge was and still is to find the guy who respects and loves me just the way I am. Dating outside your race can pose a variety of issues that can either break or make your relationship, but as long as both parties are in it for the right reasons, it can be an adventurously fulfilling ride.
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But for some reason good Black women catch hell. “yall will throw us under the bus and drive it. Because when you see other women they are not plagued by stereotypes of the few bad apples that they have. ” #DEAD lol and you right about the absence of protection there. Sadly i see that because there are some Black women that act a certain way now the Black women who are decent college educated ppl get treated like garbage because of it. And i don`t see how this is allowed to happen.
They not only have great bodies but great personalities and all white girls I’ve dated only cared about thier popularity status and thier hair and other unnesscessary things. Black girls are amazing and always know what to talk about other than themselves. I would love to talk to a black girl. I as a white guy love black women over any race because unlike white girls black girls aren’t always complaining about bullshit and black girls know how to keep a white man happy.
Don’t let ole Ruthy Baby bother you, she hasn’t taken her meds since they gave her the furlough. Must chap her old racist behind to know that black people aren’t going anywhere. You would think as much as she talks bad about black people that her ass would have gotten back on that ship to Europe by now.
What she is describing is culture attractions and differencesit doesn’t have much to do with race. I find this article weirdbut to each their own I guess. But this sounds “stupid” and thats not a word I like to use. I guess I appreciate her opinion and outlook. I am a black american woman and I am married to a white american man and this article is quit confusing to me.
They let their actions speak for themselves, whereas BW LITERALLY SPEAK for themselves and everyone else. BM in the US need to catch up with the UK boys. I’ve never heard Hispanic or White women refer to themselves as “loyal”. BM had the wool pulled over their eyes and if you think the last increase in IR relationships and marriages in the US census was something, I can’t wait to see the numbers this time around.
Too much made of race in this country. How can anyone make such an idiotic blanket statement about a group of people. The first thing I notice is the beauty of a woman. This idiot does not speak for me or any of my pals. Its true – we’re guys. Believe me, opposites play a factor in the appeal. A beautiful woman is a beautiful woman – Period. Then very quickly, I move onto the personality and the mutual connection factor. Listen, guys are so simple, really. Most blonde guys like me are highly attracted to African American woman. Everyone’s idea of beautiful is different, no one should sell themselves short. Their is really nothing tangible I can put my finger on, but it’s definitely there. As a vet, we were taught we were all Americans irregardless of our backgrounds. Now beauty is a subjective term and thought process.
I would always get defensive. For the longest time, I have been told that I am the “type of black girl” that white guys would be falling over themselves to date.
I am also very well educated and well apoken and ALL of those things are part of what attracted my husband to me, because you see, he is actually attracted to ME. Whoever wrote this article should have kept it. Why do I get the feeling that this article only reaffirmed negative stereotypes of black women rather than the opposite. As a black woman married to a white man, none of what this person is talking about in this article is relevant. This writer needs to go have a seat. Not some list of preconceived notions and stereotypes to avoid. It was basically an article about why she felt she was “worthy” of a white guy dating her. I am outspoken (not loudmouthed), and curvy, (not fat) and have been known to rock a weave occasionally (albeit a very nice and tastefully done weave).
His statement is “It’s my life, who cares what they think. 7 months ago I met someone online who happens to be a 57 year old white engineer from Georgia. I’ve been divorced for 10+ years (from an AfAm man) and had only one other long term relationship (another AfAm male). ” This blog and your comments have given me a different perspective on what may be my “final and forever love” – whatever “people may say”. I stumbled on this blog and find the views fascinating. Easy on the eyes, tall (as am I), professional, and funny. He has suggested meeting or coming to visit me but I’ve continued to put it off thinking where can this possibly lead. What does that tell you about a “brother”. I am very attracted to him and we have great chats together. I am a professional AfAm 50-something year old female. (By the way My criteria is pretty much, but 95% of the “flirts” and “chats” I get online are from white guys). For that I thank you. It’s made me want to chime in. What will people think of me.
Are you really implying that Blacks are the only people who culturally connect and “segregrate” off cultural similarity. But Whites, Indians, Palestinians, and Mexicans do the same thing. There are distinct Black cultures in America whether you want it to be or not. That’s complete BS and you know it. This idea that Blacks must fully act how you want them to be is ridiculous. Heck people marry and befriend people of the same race toovabd it’s primarily due to culture.
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Its so confusing for me because already I am as insecure as it gets and when you like that guy who doesn’t even give you the time of day, it hurts. I have always been attracted to white guys from as far back as I can remember, and this was before being introduced to the strictly black and white world. When you like that white guy that doesn’t give you the time of day makes me question my worth honestly. I am a black African ( as in from South Africa) 17 year old girl. Even in South Africa, a black girl isn’t easily approached by white men, if at all.
It really depends on the persons mindset really. The article should be titled “The awesome compliments i received from white men”. And there are millions that are considered “loud mouthed” with degrees and athletic bodies and vise-versa. I can go on and on but I’ve already let this get to me lol and already written enough. She pretends to care, but its so obvious she’s taking it all in and was just boasting and make all the compliments she received known. What was the point of this article, i thought i was going to learn her experience and maybe read about how she told these men that how a person turns out depends on how that person was raised, their own personality and or where. I can understand how this can offend some people. I’m African and i get these comments all the time, but people i know (relatives and what not) who are from the same area, not just country are loud mouthed. It really has little to do with their ethnicity.
Please name these men of other races that have a 48% never married rate. Waiting on the magical BM to get married and treat them right is setting BW up for disapointment and loneliness. “Setting BW up for disapointment and loneliness”. The lies you tell.
One of my best friends from childhood was a white guy magnet – and now, she is married to a European man and has a daughter. She is bubbly and ultra feminine and they just couldn’t and can’t get enough of her. She loves to travel. It’s sad but it happens a lot. She loved pop and rock. She is a beautiful dark brown, with long hair that is hers, lol, and a curvy but thin shape. Black guys always said she “acted white” when all she was doing was being herself. I am finding that worldly, open minded black women have better luck with non-black men. I’ve seen it happen time again. From the time we were like 12, white guys just loved her.
Actually men from all backgrounds Indian, middle eastern, Asian etc. Don’t think soft spoken is much of the cause. I always end up with white guys hitting on me. Do t know why at all and still trying up figure it out myself. I guess it depends ok the guy. I am soft spoken but very opinionated. It called attraction a man sees what he likes and goes after it is all. Interracial interest have always been there nothing new. Now stp making a spectacle or mystery to something as simple as attraction and get over it.
I have recently opened up to the possibility of dating outside my race. So on the dating sites I have had numerous replies, but most of them are looking for hook ups. I have tried the online dating thing to meet guys because I have never been approached by white guys. I wonder is it the fact that I live in Mississippi. There is still a lot of racial tension here. One guy even admitted to me that he doesn’t know many white guys that would date a black women inpublic, no matter how pretty she is.
They usually cannot be trusted to have anything but ulterior motives – namely the satisfaction of their curiosity with the sexual experience. There’s a big difference between the two, and your choice of words highlights the reason so many black women are reticent about dating white men. Interesting that you said “sexual thoughts” and not “attraction”.